COMM-ORG Papers Volume 14, 2008 |
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Communities Engaged in Resisting Violence
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"People tend to put violence at different levels. Rape is at the top, sexual harassment atthe bottom. But it’s all violence, no matter what kind of violence you’ve experienced."— FUFA member Yunuen Rodriguez |
All of the organizations develop their definitions, analyses, and approaches to violence from within their groups and communities. Rather than telling people what violence is, how it affects them, and what they need to do about it, these groups focus on generating the definitions and approaches from the experiences and perspectives of the members of the community. It’s important because, as AquaMoon points out, "having definitions imposed has been what’s always been done to women of color."
The Young Women’s Empowerment Project (YWEP) encourages "girls to create their own analysis around violence and to create their own support system. We’re not saying you can’t handle this violence, you need a shelter and crisis worker. We’re saying violence happens all the time and we need to understand how best to support ourselves through it."
Jen Curley from FIRE adds, "We let the women and girls define violence for themselves here. We don’t impose our definitions. If she has felt that she has been put down in some way, we aren’t the ones to say: well no, that’s not violence."
Latinas Organizing for Reproductive Equality defines control over women’s reproductive choices a form of institutional violence. Mariela Alburges says, "We believe that reproductive rights are fundamental human rights. When there are laws dictating our reproductive rights options or controlling our decisions over our bodies, we consider that a form of personal violence and also institutional violence."
It is not just definitions, but also approaches. Most mainstream service providers encourage counseling, leaving the abuser, and/or reporting to police. And yet, the youth connected with YWEP, which works with young women impacted by the sex trade, are often subject to police surveillance, harassment, and arrest, and thus do not see the police as a place to see assistance, safety, or accountability. For YWEP, a commitment to transformative justice means not relying on the legal or legislative system to create accountability for individual acts of violence. Shira Hassan explains that for the girls and young women that YWEP works with, "more laws are not going to help."
"Transformative justice recognizes that we can transform our communities without the help of state systems, federal systems, social services. There is a way you can address violence without going to a shelter or without calling the cops." — Shira Hassan, YWEP
This has been a key issue behind the organizing of Incite! Women of Color Against Violence. The national Incite! in collaboration with Critical Resistance circulated a statement entitled, "Gender Violence and the Prison Industrial Complex"that was directed to anti-violence advocates who have "often uncritically called for tougher prison sentences and greater police
involvement"and to anti-prison activists who "have often not seriously considered issues of safety for survivors of domestic and sexual violence ."It calls for the development of "community-based responses to violence that do not rely on the criminal justice system and which have mechanisms that ensure safety and accountability for survivors of sexual and domestic violence."(Incite! 2006, pp. 223- 226)
Linking local and global violence
The GABRIELA Network Chicago works to make visible how the violence against women of colonialism, imperialism, and global terrorism is connected to sexual and domestic violence and other forms of interpersonal violence, including homophobia, within Filipina and progressive communities. They encourage anti-war and anti-imperialist activists to address interpersonal sexual violence, domestic violence, homophobia, and sexism, and they encourage anti-rape and domestic violence activists to include an analysis of global and imperialist forms of violence in their efforts.
As Kay Barrett explains, "A lot of us are against U.S. occupation and a lot of us are against rape."GABRIELA Network wants activists to consider the questions of "How are these issues connected? How do we break down these issues of global terrorism? How are rape and violence against women and LGBTQI folk connected to global terrorism?"
GABRIELA Network believes these are intricately connected: "Women are raped in occupied countries and that is an act of war, that is a tool of war perpetuated by colonization, or comfort women from Korea, our bodies have always been colonized, or women who are being sterilized in Puerto Rico, the Philippines, various places in Africa, we have to identify that these are patriarchal forms of violence as well."
As groups look at global forms of violence, some also look internationally for models and approaches to respond to violence. Casa Segura, whose members are primarily Latin American immigrants, bring firsthand knowledge of approaches from their countries to their work in Chicago. As Ana Romero says, "Some of us worked with marginalized communities back in our countries, in places like Oaxaca, Mexico, where there was not much funding, no fancy infrastructure, not many licensed professionals, and yet a clear understanding that we ALL have certain inalienable human rights...and we had to fight for them. Needless to say how much we have learned from these compañeras."
Similarly, in Women & Girls CAN’s February 2007 convening, looking at alternative approaches to providing housing for women impacted by violence, planning group members brought in examples of models from India and Bolivia to inform our discussion and work. The project from Bolivia, Mujeres Creando, for instance, runs a house, la Virgen de los Deseos, which is open to women to stay for a few days if they need a place. They also run a variety of economic, community, artistic, and political spaces/projects (for more info, www.mujerescreando.org).
Many of the groups do not identify themselves as survivor-specific in their mission statements. Because they aim to end multiple kinds of violence from a variety of sources, they don’t emphasize a distinction between "survivors"and "non-survivors."The projects engage members of the community to recognize that multiple forms of violence and systems of oppression exist and that members may be impacted differently.
Most groups assume that all members of the community in some ways are survivors of violence and oppression and all can contribute to making the community more accountable for stopping its perpetuation.
Most groups choose not to use the term "survivor" because it is not one embraced by members of the community. For instance, the Broadway Youth Center (BYC) is very flexible and fluid in their approach to those who participate in their programs, and the definitions come through "community and relationship building, and change over time."Thus, no one who seeks BYC’s services has to identify as a "survivor."While the staff and youth leaders at BYC understand that most youth who come to the organization have experienced violence, these youth are not required to focus on the violence or to identify themselves as survivors in order to be a part of the project. BYC provides a space for youth to address the issues and concerns they decide to address, rather than to have these imposed upon them.
BYC recognizes that they are sometimes working with perpetrators who have also been victimized. As Lara Brooks says, "We’re accessible to those who are impacted by and those who have perpetuated violence. Some youth may be both survivors and perpetrators. . . . It’s important that staff and youth workers develop a complex analysis of anti-violence work, responses to trauma, and multiple oppressions. It’s important for us to remain diligent in challenging this analysis and the different ways violence exists within our communities. We do a lot of intentional work, especially with individuals who perpetuate violence and how that relates to their experience of multi-tiered and intersecting forms of violence."
This approach is quite different from many agencies that explicitly would not include both survivors and perpetrators of violence as part of their work. BYC’s decision to not separate out "victims"from "perpetrators"at the outset is based on their recognition that there are multiple systems of oppression and privilege at work, and that people who are part of their community come from multiple identities and experiences. Lara Brooks relates this, then, to the issue of safety. While some groups hope to create "safe"space by focusing on survivors and excluding perpetrators, or by including only a particular group in the project, groups like BYC believe that safety is more a process and must be created through community building. Safety is negotiated rather than assumed.
Lara Brooks provides this example: "We may build a relationship with a trans woman of color who is experiencing homelessness and accessing our daily drop -in program. During the course of our relationship, she may develop an intimate relationship with a BYC participant who is impacted by multiple oppressions, disproportionate state violence, trauma, and poverty. How can we utilize our longstanding relationships to support the individual growth, resilience, and survival of these two individuals if intimate partner violence occurs? What does safety mean within the context of this relationship? And, more importantly, how do we create safe space that is informed by the needs of our youth, larger systemic issues, and intersecting oppressions? In our space, we have the opportunity to use our relationships with young people to discuss and explore—using a pace that the young person defines—the intersection of personal, community, and state violence. For us, this is healing work."
In setting out to end violence, it is important to begin with an analysis of why violence is so prevalent in the lives of women and girls. There is no one answer to this complex question.
As with defining violence, it is community members who define the root causes of violence, and so the analysis varies from group to group.
Some groups see societal views of men and women as the central cause of violence. The Rogers Park Young Women’s Action Team feels that the root cause of male violence against women and girls is "the pervasive social belief system that posits male superiority over women as natural and preferred."Ending violence, then, will "require changes at the most fundamental
levels of society. These changes must eliminate policies and practices perpetuated by the male-dominated culture that sexualize women as objects, demean their value, restrict their participation in decision making, control their rights over their bodies, dehumanize them with labels, restrict their ability to use public space, and marginalize and demean their presence."
Another young women’s group, Females United for Action (FUFA), similarly believes that societal views of women, youth, people of color and other marginalized groups are the root cause of violence. FUFA believes that these views are shaped by the media. Youth organizer Stacy Erenberg comments, "It’s deeply embedded in our society through language and art that women are less than men, and should have no voice, and men should assert their power over women. You see it in music, in news programming, who the authority is vested in… So on a personal level when you have these societal dialogues telling men and women that one gender is supposed to be subordinate, it’s accepted. We think: that’s what happens, men beat women up, that’s the way it is."
Other groups identify multiple oppressions as the root of violence. Mariame Kaba of Chicago Incite! captures the complexity of the issue when she explains, "We believe that at its roots, violence against women is based in and relies on the maintenance of oppressions, including
but not limited to colonialism, racism, sexism, heterosexism, fundamentalism, imperialism, ableism, and classism that cannot be separated because they work in concert to reinforce each other. Hence, we are committed to ending violence by confronting and dismantling all of these
systems of oppression."The Young Women’s Empowerment Project also points to the maintenance of multiple oppressions as the root cause of violence against girls, queer youth and women in the sex trade. These forms of oppression "work together to reinforce each other and
to maintain the hierarchy of power within these system of violence – from police to pimps, from parents to prosecutors – that affect our daily struggle to survive."
For Susan Nussbaum at Access Living, it is the capitalist political system, the power of the state, that leads to violence. "It's a system of government that commodifies human beings. Humans are like raw material under capitalism. It breeds violence on a grand scale, such as war, and on a very personal, individual scale, between partners, parents and children, etc."
Here are some questions your group can discuss to develop your analysis:
Questions of structure, including how decisions are made and where to seek funding, reflect groups’ analyses around issues of violence and oppression.
Rather than copy the structures they have experienced in the mainstream service community, groups have gone back to the drawing board to question every aspect of their structure.
Groups are asking the question that Alice Cottingham articulates: "How can we think about beginning to deconstruct hierarchies and funding structures and organizational structures that exist?"
A starting point for many groups is their concern that many mainstream antiviolence groups are disconnected from the communities they serve, and that these organizations view survivors as clients and agency staff as experts. Ana Romero explains that in founding Casa Segura, "women saw the need of building a project that was comprised primarily by community residents, who had a natural knowledge of the neighborhood, spoke the language, could relate to the issues….their concern was that these social service agencies were invading the community without ever including community members in the conversation as to what type of structure their program should have. They hated the fact they were defined as clients, so they were open to develop something that was more community based, and where the community would have active participation… and they would be called compañeras."
The language used by other organizations also reflects this goal. Members of Latinas Organizing for Reproductive Equality (LORE), according to Mariela Alburges, refer to one another "not as colleagues, but as hermanas, sisters."
Typical of the groups we interviewed, the Young Women’s Empowerment Project (YWEP) does not view the young women in their group in only one dimension; they see them in their full humanity. As Shira Hassan says, YWEP understands that "people have multiple lives; they are not just the drug user or prostitute, they are also a knitter, a mother, a nurturer, etc. When we look at the whole person, we recognize that they do have strategies to keep themselves safe, and they are already using some of them."
Many people we interviewed want to make this potentially draining work sustainable, by creating systems of support and self care, and by consciously rejecting the helper-helped dynamic.
An important part of this process of community- building is the creation of systems of support for members of the group. Alice Cottingham explains that in the early days of the movement, "it was so urgent to create safe space, women were dying… Hearing stories of how terrified women were, how much they had been hurt, how close they were to being killed, nobody was prepared to listen to those stories. We didn’t anticipate, what do you do with that information, how can you listen to it every day?"Based on this experience, she urges activists to have a "sense of gentleness with each other."
"What we’ve done is found a way to make people feel really safe and to promote healing and action and support."— Jen Curley, FIRE
Many groups focus on self care and building support and solidarity among group members. LORE insists that the work take place on a personal level, with members of the group supporting one another. Mariela Alburges explains, "I can speak to another woman and check in at a personal level, as opposed to solely work work work. So we acknowledge that we’re all human beings and we’re doing this on a volunteer basis and we know that we can support each other in different ways."
FIRE stresses that the work they do "comes from our lives."Members use their experiences – "as healers, organizers, nurses, as women that work in salons, as mothers, artists, as survivors"as well as what they experience on a daily basis. Jen Curley comments, "There is space to bring this - our experiences, what we read, hear, live - into our meetings. It’s not like this is the agenda and this is all we can talk about. We don’t box ourselves in in that way. For example, there were several young women of color who were assaulted on the south side and the news portrayed them as ‘unrelated.’ We had this long conversation about how we are pushed to see acts of violence against women of color as ‘unrelated’ if not perpetrated by the same perpetrator, rather than as part of a system of violence."
Jen Curley continues, "We incorporate these conversations into our analysis – when we are working on the publication, in how we frame our issues. Important to this is an analysis of how we may perpetuate what we are working to end; so we ask ourselves—do we use/support ways of thinking about violence that allow it to continue? Does how we frame the issue of violence in our publication prop up systems of violence? We feel that these are important questions for us to ask."
The group has prioritized the balancing of work and healing, both within and outside of their meetings. Meetings do not focus solely on action steps, but include "healing rituals, sharing food, grounding exercises, telling our stories, what we have heard, seen, read about."The group has decided to hold separate monthly sister circles, to provide more space for healing and support outside of the regular meetings.
Groups have also made structural decisions based on a critique of the "nonprofit industrial complex"(NPIC), the restrictive structures in which tax exempt nonprofit organizations operate.
Non-profit, or "501(c)3" organizations, are sanctioned by the state as official charities. Such organizations must follow state regulations -- they must have boards of directors to govern the group, meaning that they have inherently hierarchical structures; they must approve by-laws and policies to govern their organizations; and they must file annual reports with the state.
Most organizations obtain 501(c)3 status so that donations, including foundation grants, can be tax deductible. Others, however, are choosing not to have this status because they argue that it is counterproductive to create social justice projects within a state-sanctioned system. For these groups, reliance on foundation support, like reliance on state funding, is risky because funders may have too much control over the organization’s goals and strategies.
While critiques of the NPIC are not new, there has been an increased focus on the subject both within Chicago and nationally over the past five to ten years. Much of this focus has been spurred by women of color, and in particular, national Incite!. They held a series of conversations beginning in 2002, and eventually published an anthology called The Revolution Will Not Be Funded (2006). Chicago Incite! in partnership with several local groups, held a two-day event in April 2007. It featured a panel discussion with several of the book’s authors, as well as a workshop with Paula Rojas from New York’s Sista II Sista to focus on implications for groups working with, and led by, young women.
The groups represented in this report have negotiated the NPIC in different ways. Some choose not to adopt the nonprofit status, and others choose to adopt it with some innovation.
One group that has moved far away from a hierarchical model is Incite! Both national and Chicago Incite! have held discussions to determine whether their structure should be centralized or decentralized. Leadership on the national level decided against a top-down approach in which they would be setting priorities for groups around the country. Taking this to the next level, Chicago Incite! has agreed that any woman of color who agrees with the national Principles of Unity can label her work as part of Incite! and hold events in the name of the organization.
Some other groups that have formed in the past five years also have decided to forego the process of becoming 501(c)3 organizations, and instead have developed nonhierarchical structures. For example, Mariela Alburges explains that at Latinas Organizing for Reproductive Equality (LORE), "we don’t like thinking of ourselves as a board, we think of ourselves as a steering committee where we give ourselves the opportunity to facilitate these discussions, bring it back to the group, and think about next steps. It’s a reciprocal, cyclical engagement."
The Rogers Park Young Women’s Action Team (YWAT) is committed to remaining a fiscally-sponsored project because of the flexibility that it affords the group in setting up its decision-making structure. YWAT director Daphnee Rene explains: "We don’t need to become a 501c(3) and then have to deal with the paperwork and the regulations. We don’t need that to accomplish our goals. Plus, we try to operate more like a collective and want to remain youth-led. When you have to have a board, you have to open yourself up to adults having more power in the organization."
Some of the groups have decided to not seek out foundation support, or to limit it significantly.
FIRE members had long discussions about whether to seek larger grants to support their work, but as Jen Curley explains, "we decided that we wanted to be able to make decisions about our work that made sense for us – that were in line with our values, our mission, and what is happening in our lives – not on what a funder wants. We also wanted to spend our energy on the publication [a survivors’ storytelling project that FIRE is creating] and with each other, not on having to go to funder events, keeping track of guidelines, fitting into rules that don’t make sense for our work."
Mariela Alburges explains that LORE would ideally find "a funding source that doesn’t have any restrictions to our work and that just really allows us to tell our stories and the stories of the women that are working with us in a way that is respectful to their experiences and that is enacting change."LORE has thus far chosen to fundraise without turning to foundations, holding events and selling T-shirts and buttons to bring in funding. Mariela Alburges sees this as a strength for the group. "Financial factors have been a struggle, but also rewarding because we know that we are on very limited funds, and so we want to make any organizing event we put together something that is worthwhile for the community, something that propels our work, increases the momentum, and takes us to the next step."
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At the same time, it can be challenging to operate outside of the 501(c)3 system and to develop alternative models. Inhe Choi of Korean American Women in Need (KAN-WIN) reflects on the organization’s decision to move from a collective model to a more traditional one. "As the number of workers grew, board members were placed in the role of micromanaging the organization in personnel matters such as work hours, vacations and reimbursement, as well as disagreements over case management… The absence of an executive director also limited funding opportunities from certain funders that only support organizations with an executive director at the helm. Thus while we succeeded in securing grants from important foundations and government agencies, we also knew that we could do significantly better if we presented ourselves as an organization with accountable and traditional leadership."
Groups that choose to operate completely outside of the 501(c)3 structure generally have small budgets, and are often unstaffed; this decision can also present challenges. Some of the challenges Casa Segura encounters from operating primarily with a volunteer base are the lack of continuity and forced interruption of certain initiatives due to leadership turnover.
This turnover "speaks to the multiple barriers faced by the compañeras we collaborate with,"Ana Romero observes. "Many of them are first generation immigrants, low income, single moms… with no discretionary income and whose lives can change in an instant because of a job loss, a sick child, a personal illness….. In fact, we are currently exploring alternative models of women’s economic development and sustainability focusing on social purpose businesses and cooperatives…."
With these challenges in mind, other groups have chosen to become 501(c)3 organizations.
For these groups, the decision has required them to rethink the role of the board of directors, to create more levels of decision-making. For example, Females United for Action (FUFA), which is a project of Women & Girls CAN (a 501(c)3 organization), has its own decision-making core group that guides the project’s work; youth representatives serve on the organizational board of directors as well, to infuse a youth voice into all levels of decision-making.
Organizer Stacy Erenberg feels that "an organization like FUFA that works to end violence against women shouldn’t put hierarchical power structures in place that could lead to oppression within the organization." FUFA is able to operate within a 501(c)3 structure, in her opinion, because "the board of Women & Girls CAN is dedicated to keeping FUFA grassroots and making sure it’s youth-driven, and the adults confront their own adultism. The board is really willing to learn… and it’s not just the board driving something because of a grant they may get."
The organizations we interviewed were uniformly committed to having their issues, strategies, structure and definitions of success defined by their communities rather than by outside forces such as foundations.
As Shira Hassan of the Young Women’s Empowerment Project explains, "it’s been a long term struggle around how we define success instead of how funders define it. We need to build a language to help people understand what we are doing so they see the successes." Groups define success in many different ways, including: developing and deepening their analysis and understanding of violence; developing youth leadership; the ability to push the social justice community at large to develop a gender analysis; and the individual transformation they see taking place within their communities.
Questions to ask yourself:
Projects operating within larger social service agencies face a unique situation. Social service agencies addressing violence against women are almost always dependent on state funding, and often have extensive reporting requirements on the individual women served. While all of the people we interviewed stressed how important the work of these social service agencies is, operating a community-driven anti-violence project within such a structure – in particular, one that seeks to challenge the state – may present conflicts.
One activist spoke of an experience she had had at a project several years ago which was situated within a mainstream agency that provided services to domestic violence survivors. "I started to implement more of what I know, which is popular education, and the group was growing and became very powerful, and at some point there was a question within the organization, because there was a contradiction between our philosophy and the mainstream organization… They were trying to close [our project] but after a letter writing campaign to the board with men and women from the community, they decided to give us another chance to continue."
FIRE began as a project of Southwest Women Working Together (an organization that closed its doors recently), but left after several struggles in trying to operate within the larger organization. Jen Curley, who was hired as an organizer, explains that the organization "was challenged by our circle structure and the dignity and respect with which we treated each other. They were threatened by the ways in which women started speaking up about the abuse and violence they saw at the organization. It was then that they started trying to control all of us in different ways. They threatened me with changing my position at the organization or trying to impose rules on our work (i.e. deciding what our meetings looked like, and what we should work on). There were even implied threats of taking away some people’s housing or punishing them for ‘breaking program rules.’ And they denied us access to funds we had raised. It created a hostile environment for members to come into the office."
FIRE member Cernora Johnson adds, "The organization that was there to provide help and guidance to women who experienced domestic violence became a place of tension, gossip, verbal attacks, and much more. It’s like the organization that was put forth to help survivors of abuse became the abusers. It had got so bad that I could no longer walk in the building because of all the evilness that was going on."
FIRE’s decision to become independent brought clear benefits, but also challenges. Jen Curley explains, "Being outside of a nonprofit organization has freed up both space and energy to focus on our work rather than defending ourselves and our work, but it has created new challenges. My time as the paid organizer had been devoted to keeping the group going and helping to build the group -- through agenda building, follow-up, turn-out calls, documenting our work and growth, and seeking out resources and opportunities. Not having paid staff has helped us to create a more collective model of working in terms of leadership and responsibilities, but it has been harder to meet or keep up momentum."
Such experiences have led some activists to develop an inside/outside approach, in which they hold paid positions at mainstream antiviolence agencies, while they are also involved in community-based projects aimed at ending violence against women outside of their work.
At a recent Chicago dialogue convened by Women & Girls CAN, anti-violence activists discussed the limits of operating within the mainstream anti-violence agencies, with some arguing that more projects, like the ones reflected in this report, need to be developed outside of this framework.
Others saw the value of continuing to try to shift mainstream organizations to address some of the limits and renew their commitments to social justice (see also Building Movement Project report, "Social Service and Social Change"in Suggested Readings).
Given the groups’ anti-violence and anti-oppression analysis, they are committed to creating internal accountability to ensure that mistreatment, harassment and violence are not taking place within their own groups or within partner organizations. The groups adopt a variety of approaches and structures to create safe, accountable spaces.
Creating safe spaces
Many of the groups recognize that their organizations and their communities are not homogeneous, and are not always safe, welcoming, and respectful for all members. Some have begun to reflect on their own practices, reexamining how their structures and methods might alienate or exclude certain segments of the community.
Several organizations spoke to the need to create a safe space for queer youth and women with disabilities.
The Brighton Park Neighborhood Council (BPNC) has made a conscious decision to create programming and structure that is welcoming to queer and questioning youth and allies. In 2006, youth leaders within the organization formed a community-based Gay Straight Alliance. Jessie Avilez, the first youth coordinator of the GSA, explains, "Its creation originated from small group discussion with other fellow queer people, who identified the need for a safe space. People do not realize that LGBTQ people exist within their community, and this lack of visibility leaves the younger people at a higher risk for problematic situations."Through the organization’s youth council and GSA, he "found comfort to be myself and express my individuality outside of the home or high school – the oppressive system that was and probably still is homophobic."
BPNC followed up on the creation of the GSA by having trainings for staff and leaders around homophobia and heterosexism, and by holding board discussions, so that leadership at every level has an understanding of the issues facing queer youth in the community.
BPNC has also recently begun to have more conversations about gender identity and expression, as many of the youth involved have challenged rigid gender expressions and have talked about the policing they experience at school and in the community. As a group, however, they realize that they need to take more active and intentional steps in being trans-inclusive. They see themselves as in-process; as youth organizer Jen Curley says, "for us right now it means challenging transphobia and gender policing within our group and work and acting to change it." The youth recently attended a Trans 101 training at the Broadway Youth Center to begin this work more structurally. BPNC has also brought issues of LGBTQ rights into their coalitions as they address issues such as educational equity and criminal justice.
Susan Nussbaum of Access Living stresses that "we are allies in the struggle, but it is really important for all of us to understand all the various conditions that are on us because of our layers and layers of identities of oppression we’re dealing with, despite how we identify primarily." She urges organizations to think through ways to create a safe space that is welcoming and accessible to women with disabilities. This means taking into account the wide range of disabilities that women may have, as well as taking simple steps such as obtaining and learning how to use TTY equipment.
As groups expand their definition of who is included in their community, and work to build partnerships with other groups to end violence, they have had to develop ways to deal with conflict and to negotiate different ideas and approaches. Sharon Powell of All Hail acknowledges that "when you’re collaborating, tension is going to flare up." Looking to coops and collectives, All Hail is in the process of developing and embedding conflict resolution principles and practices into their group and organizational structure. The Young Women’s Action Team has used "healing circles" to address internal group conflicts that will inevitably arise. The circle process involves the use of a talking piece, a focus on active listening, and a commitment of basic respect for all group members.
Responding to an act of violence within the community
When conflict arises because of an act of physical violence within the group, additional approaches come into play. A starting point for some groups is to explicitly state guiding principles for everyone involved in the organization. For example, Incite! members, including those in the Chicago chapter, agree to Principles of Unity, affirming their commitment to ending violence within and outside of the organization.
Principles of Unity: We at INCITE!:
Chicago GABRIELA Network created a membership pledge card, in which all members commit that they will not participate in acts of violence against women. The card is accompanied by a series of trainings on violence against women, so that members fully understand their commitment. Initiated by the Chicago chapter, almost 1,000 women nationally representing 12 American GABRIELA Network chapters, have now signed onto this groundbreaking campaign.
GABRIELA Network Pledge Card
I, _________, pledge to challenge sexual and domestic violence in all its forms as a member of GABRIELA Network. I understand that sexual and domestic violence are issues of power that impact the lives of all people including women, men, youth, and lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgendered, queer, two-spirit, and gender nonconforming people. I also understand that sexual and domestic violence overwhelmingly affects women.
I pledge to stand by those who are survivors of sexual and domestic violence, meaning that I will believe their words, support them, and advocate for them. I will honor their wishes, especially if they do not wish to report incidents to the authorities.
I pledge that I will not perpetrate acts of sexual or domestic violence against others and I understand that if I do, I will be discharged from the organization immediately.
I have read the materials on sexual and domestic violence provided to me, and have or will participate in the GABRIELA Network educational about sexual and domestic violence.
In other cases, issues of violence and mistreatment may arise as groups partner with other organizations that may not share their analysis. This has raised questions that groups continue to struggle with.
What does it mean for groups with an anti-violence lens to partner with organizations that do not share that analysis?
What should groups do when incidents of violence and oppression occur in partner organizations?
How can we create accountability within our own community—within our own group, with our partner organizations, and with groups in coalition?
How can we develop responses that engage the community, and that do not rely on the state?
Women of color have taken a leading role in this work. Chicago activists participated in a 2-day discussion held by national Incite! in 2004, which resulted in a report entitled Gender Oppression – Abuse – Violence: Community Accountability within the People of Color Progressive Movement. The report begins by stating that "patriarchy continues to oppress all of us within our progressive, radical, revolutionary people of color organizations and movement. This system of oppression has held back our movement, divided us, forced us to make false choices among forms of oppression, and created environments of fear and submission rather than justice and liberation. Patriarchal attitudes and ways of doing our work, gender-based abuse within our own intimate relationships, among our own constituents and among comrades too often goes on silent and unchallenged. Denial, minimizing and victim-blaming which prop up and support continued gender-based oppression and violence remains deeply rooted within our consciousness, assumptions, attitudes, and actions or lack of action."
The report clarifies the ways in which survivors are silenced, blamed and mistreated within the social justice community. It calls on people of color social justice groups to "set conditions for safety, respect and gender equity,"suggesting action steps including: grounding the organization in principles and practices that promote gender equity and challenge patriarchy; sending a clear message that serious action will be taken in response to oppression, abuse and violence; providing a transparent process for community accountability; and providing structured political education to all organizational members and allies.
In 2006, Mango Tribe spurred a series of town hall discussions in response to "reports of rape and sexual misconduct by respected adult male members/leaders in the Asian American community involving female youths, 15-18 years old." In their "Call to Action,"Mango Tribe emphasized that, "as mentors, educators, and organizers in our community, it is our duty to maintain safe spaces for youth. . . . And so, when young APIA women now feel unsafe in the very space where they first found validity for their political identity, then we have failed them as a community."
Kay Barrett, a member of Mango Tribe and GABRIELA Network, talks about how infuriated organizers had been to learn that the decision on how to deal with one of the perpetrators was made by an organization's Board of Directors and Executive Director that employed him, with no community input. The perpetrator was allowed to resign quietly from the organization, with no accountability to the community.
The town hall meetings created a space to discuss how to create mechanisms of support when violence takes place within a social justice project, how to create a safe space to prevent violence from happening, and how to hold perpetrators accountable within the community.
Kay Barrett, who was one of the coordinators of the town hall events, felt that the feedback they received pointed to the problem itself. She explains, "A lot of the other organizations, in my opinion as GABRIELA Network coordinator, are very homophobic and internalized sexist. The feedback was: Well, she should seek law enforcement, there should be a police report, we don’t really know who she is, but we know who the perpetrator is and he’s our friend, so why’s she anonymous? So, again, all of these mechanisms of coercion, of isolation."
In response, GABRIELA Network circulated an "open letter stating our stance towards organizations we believe perpetuate sexual and domestic violence in the APIA community and in social justice communities in Chicago." The letter states that GABRIELA Network will not "affiliate, work with, or formally attend organizational functions that do not have a transparent process addressing sexual assault. We believe that working with organizations that do not recognize sexual assault would be counterproductive in making connections towards the liberation we envision."
The writing of the open letter was a collective decision made by all GABRIELA Network Chicago members with the recognition that while it might limit their coalition work, it would deepen their militancy and political praxis. According to Kay Barrett, one important result of their stance has been that "a lot of those Filipina young women who were in those organizations are seeking to come to GABRIELA Network because they realize that we are a supportive, empowering space."
Healing circles and the actions of united community members can also be used effectively to respond to violence within the social justice community.
Last year, a group of people connected with Women and Girls CAN formed a healing circle of trusted friends and colleagues to support a member of our community who had been sexually assaulted by someone in the social justice community. The healing circle created a communal space for her to tell her story and for the group to talk about its impact on us.
The healing circle process was very powerful. The group recognized that it wasn’t just an individual problem, but a community problem, and that the community as a whole could take action on it. As the survivor says, "Until we were all in the room, I kept thinking it was just my problem and I wasn’t sure what steps to take to make sure other people would be safe. This circle was empowering for all of us, but especially for me, in large part because we took action together." Through our healing circle, we came up with strategies to create accountability for the violence. We wrote a collective letter to the perpetrator and we alerted people who might be working with him about the incident and the potential for future violence.
There is a broad variety of work taking place in Chicago to end violence against women and girls. This section will present six examples of successful strategies you might consider in your own work.
We want to make two points at the outset. First, this report provides a snapshot of work taking place in Chicago. Women & Girls CAN will continue to document this evolving work and share information about it. Please visit our website at http://www.womenandgirlscan.org for more information, and to submit your group’s information, ideas, strategies, and successes.
Second, we want to stress that most groups do not fit neatly into just one of these categories, but rather borrow from a variety of approaches, and also shift their strategies and tactics over time. Mariela Alburges echoes the sentiments of many groups when she says that Latinas Organizing for Reproductive Equality is "not bound to one specific model. Every time we go out we learn a little bit of something, and then we change our approach, little by little." Activists are rejecting these "false choices"of having to opt for only one approach. Rather than pigeonhole the groups as working only within certain models, then, we offer these as successful approaches to consider in taking on this work.
Latinas Organizing for Reproductive Equality believes that it is crucial for women in the community to engage with one another and learn about each others’ experiences in order to build community and open conversations about traditionally taboo topics. The organization has held a series of "cafecitos,"in which women come together to talk about their lives. Mariela Alburges explains, "We present the conversations as cafecitos, so we imagine that women are just coming, sharing coffee, sharing with the break of bread, and creating this trust and rapport for them to be able to really speak openly about their own experiences and the experiences of their families. . . ."
This strategy of creating a space and opening a dialogue with women is common to many organizations. This method does not have to take place in only one setting and in only one way. Ana Romero explains that Casa Segura uses many methods to "push into public consciousness the kind of violence that women endure everyday, and which has been historically denied and trivialized. We prioritize good old grassroots mobilization such as flyer distribution, rallying, and street theater." In response to the murder of one of the women in the neighborhood they organized a march which started at the victim’s house. Later, they surveyed the community outside churches and supermarkets, and organized town hall meetings. "We were talking to many people – we wanted to know what the community thought about this murder as much as we wanted to incite them around this issue. The conversation was extremely rich. We all learned so much in the process."
Korean American Women in Need (KAN-WIN) uses community classes and workshops as an opening for engagement around issues of violence. The organization holds several different kinds of workshops – from auto repair to parenting workshops to Qigong. Inhe Choi stresses that this is about "meeting people where they are at and really working with them. It’s the bigger notion of women’s empowerment." Jenny Choi adds, "The Qigong classes are open to everybody. It’s not just for the women we work with, it’s more for the public to bring them out and in that process we talk about the work we do and invite them into it.... They do these meditative breathing exercises and it’s a social safe space to talk about personal issues and network with the community."
Young women at the Brighton Park Neighborhood Council developed a creative way to engage their community. They researched the impact of the Virgen de Guadalupe as a religious and cultural icon on Latinas in the community, looking at a series of images of the Virgen, and at the mixed messages that young women in particular receive as to how they are expected to behave. The result was a multimedia presentation aimed at promoting dialogue. The young women found that the Virgen was associated with positive characteristics like love and understanding, but that these sometimes were interpreted to mean dependence and submissiveness to men.
Itzia Favela, a member of the Girls’ Group, explained in her presentation, "In all of these mixed messages we came across, with purity, respect and the Catholic church, it seemed that there were some common messages that related to blaming the victim. For example, we are judged if we have sex before marriage or accused of sinning if we are raped. Sometimes the questions being asked aren’t the right ones. Why aren’t they accusing him of sinning? And why are they judging us?" By sharing their research in a creative way throughout the community, they were able to promote community dialogue around media justice and violence against women.
Because the engagement takes place within the community, rather than in a client/provider relationship, it can be more healing for survivors. Heather Flett of Take Back the Halls contrasts community engagement strategies with traditional counseling for youth. "I’ve been thinking about what’s really a more healing experience for the young women – a counseling session or a group where she is out being active and being a part of something. I’m becoming more convinced that this traditional based counseling method is not what young women need."
Community engagement can also surface issues and push groups’ analysis around violence in surprising ways. Stacy Erenberg recalls that when Females United for Action (FUFA) held a youth spoken word event around media justice in June, "we didn’t expect such an open dialogue about transgender issues. But a bunch of folks from the Broadway Youth Center came and talked openly and candidly and it opened up FUFA’s idea that violence is not just binary female – male, but people who don’t define as one of those experience violence too. That was a big success for us." The queer and trans youth from BYC had an opportunity to share their stories and experiences, and FUFA members had an opportunity to see the connections with their own experiences, the sources of their oppression, and the possibilities for future collaborations.
Through these powerful approaches, women and girls in the community identify issues and develop solutions, instead of groups imposing a top-down approach. Because this is such a central part of all of the groups’ analysis, community engagement in some form has also served as a starting point for nearly all of the other strategies used by groups across Chicago.
Ways you can engage your community:
Many groups are organizing, mobilizing members of their communities to take action together to end violence against women. There is no one way to organize, and groups are using a variety of approaches.
Whether they take direct action to address what they see as the root causes of violence, or infuse an anti-violence analysis into other social change efforts within their neighborhood, or engage in participatory action research, these groups are committed to dismantling systems that promote violence and to having those most impacted speak for themselves.
The young women of Females United for Action (FUFA), who believe that media portrayals of women are a key factor in promoting violence against women, led a successful direct action campaign in 2006 against the Spanish-language radio station La Ley 107.9. La Ley’s advertisement for a radio contest, which appeared on buses and trains, on billboards and in newspapers across Chicago, showed a row of Latinas, photographed from behind in short shorts with "25 pegaditas"(slang for 25 hits or slaps) across their backs.
FUFA members felt that the ad promoted violence against women and demeaned the Latino community. For FUFA member Yunuen Rodriguez, this was an important campaign to take on: "I don’t like my community getting wrong messages about young Latina girls. I don’t like the message they put out about men, and my little brother is a young man. And I don’t want to have to be harassed… I wanted to tell them to take them down because it gets the wrong messages out there about Latina girls having to fulfill these stereotypes and being looked at as nothing more than objects."
Through press work, direct action, an email blitz, and several meetings, FUFA was able to get a meeting with both the General Manager at La Ley, and a representative of Spanish Broadcasting
System (the Miami company that owns La Ley) to make sure that they would hear firsthand from young women about their concerns. FUFA won not only immediate removal of the billboard, but also a change in La Ley’s ongoing advertising strategies. La Ley agreed to take into account the young women’s concerns in their future advertising.
For groups that are grounded in Chicago’s traditional school of community organizing, these efforts have required some reformulating of traditional organizing practices.
The Brighton Park Neighborhood Council (BPNC), which developed out of a traditional organizing model, has, according to former Director Alex Poeter, "undergone a process of reevaluating traditional organizing practices developed many years ago by white males, that traditionally don’t take into account identity, race, or the cultural context of community. That make a distinction between the public arena, where organizing takes place, and the private sphere, where domestic violence takes place. This distinction in traditional organizing means you don’t address domestic violence, you can’t organize around it…. But we’ve been exploring ways to develop more of a community response." For BPNC, this means developing new outreach methods, creating safe space for women and girls, raising violence against women as a community issue at public events and candidate forums, and infusing an anti-violence analysis into their work around related issues such as affordable housing and economic justice.
Access Living is currently organizing against the nursing home system, and includes an anti-violence analysis as part of this work. As Susan Nussbaum explains, "there’s violence and neglect in these nursing homes. Many people describe things that are nothing short of murder, and next to imprisonment, or torture, it’s the most incomprehensible cruelty that human beings are capable of inflicting on other human beings. There’s caregiver abuse, and also this whole warehousing, very paternalistic environment." The organization is fighting to have money for nursing homes go to individual people with disabilities to make their own choices "rather than straight into the nursing home’s profit margin." The group recently partnered with ADAPT, a direct action disability rights organization (www.adapt.org), in a 200-person protest at the American Medical Association.
Some direct action groups — especially those working with youth — also utilize participatory action research in their work, so that young people can research their own issues and engage their communities in action.
The Rogers Park Young Women’s Action Team (YWAT) begins their campaigns through youth-led research. Members frame the questions, design and use methods to collect data, analyze the information, make recommendations and work with others to follow through. YWAT’s 2003 study on street harassment included surveys of 168 young women and focus groups with over 30 other girls, revealing the depth of the "anger, fear, and anxiety"that youth were feeling about harassment.
The group’s initial action steps were to organize a RESPECT Campaign that included working with local businesses to hang posters against street harassment and obtaining support from public officials. In 2006, YWAT launched an annual "Citywide Day of Action to End Street Harassment," urging individuals and groups to take creative action on May 4 to make a collective statement against violence. The first Day of Action consisted of over 140 individual and collective "actions"across the city. These ranged from individuals who wore orange in support of the day, to public education events, street theater and a YWAT-led community march.
As community groups engage in organizing strategies, and challenge systems that promote violence, they need to develop approaches to ensure the group’s safety. YWAT members recall the reaction they received from some men in the community as they began to address street harassment. These men labeled YWAT members as "man bashers,"and one day, an angry community member carved "rat ass hoes"into their front door, leading the group to have several discussions about community reactions and safety. YWAT member Emilya Whitis comments, "It didn’t matter because we are still in this space and we are still doing the work that we are doing, and we are not ashamed of it."Ronnett Lockett adds, We’re creating a community, so we can support each other and see each other as role models, and that’s a really good positive thing."
Strategies for organizing to end violence:
Many forms of artistic expression have been central to social justice movements, including the anti-violence movement. These include visual arts, media arts, poetry, spoken word, and performance art, among others. A number of the groups interviewed for this project have art as their mission or as one of their strategies. Like many of the groups, All Hail suggests that art has a special role in helping groups and communities to open up "different kinds of conversations, and a chance to open up the issues in a different way." In 2006, they held a weekend event entitled "Saving Ourselves, Saving our Sisters,"featuring panels, performances, workshops and a photo exhibit to encourage community building and action to end violence against women and girls. A central goal of this work is to create spaces for people to express and empower themselves, to tell their stories, and to contribute to awareness, action, and social change.
Art can serve as a powerful vehicle for sharing women’s and girls’ stories. AquaMoon aims to "be a voice for disenfranchised youth and women, to be a voice until they’re able to speak out, through choreopoems, art, everything. To be a tool to encourage women and youth to be proactive in telling their own stories, and let them know there are other women and youth with the same issues." While AquaMoon is best known for their powerful choreopoems, they stress that there is "not a corner we’ve left untapped." The group has created art exhibits, education guides, and writings, and is now developing a full length play and screenplay.
Storytelling as a form of healing and community building is a key strategy of FIRE. They have experienced the power of storytelling through speaking at Take Back the Night events and conferences on domestic violence. As FIRE member Angee Washington says, "Our stories made connections to others. When we reach out to each other, we can build the connections and make the community stronger. " They are currently in the process of creating a publication with their stories and the stories of other survivors and people who seek to end violence, to generate strategies on ending violence in our communities.
The creation of video documentaries also can be a powerful tool, both for those who create the video and for those in the audiences. Access Living has partnered with the group Beyondmedia Education (http://www.beyondmedia.org) to produce three videos showing the real life dreams and struggles of young women with disabilities. All three videos have touched on the issue of violence, from the "brutality of paternalism"that the young women have experienced, to bullying, to control of women’s sexuality and the eugenics movement. Susan Nussbaum explains that the most recent film’s discussion of domestic violence was particularly empowering for the Empowered Fe Fes, the young women’s group at Access Living. "We talked about how it happens and what it looks like and how girls hopefully will begin to internalize a sense of self-worth that will help them to avoid those situations or extract themselves from them before they become too deadly."
Mango Tribe uses art "as a tool to educate, as a tool to create dialogue, as a tool to heal ourselves, and as a tool to politically engage within women communities, queer communities, APIA communities of color, and honestly throughout the world." Using a theater of the oppressed framework, Mango Tribe engages people to reflect on acts of violence and to develop a social justice analysis.
Kay Barrett explains that "performances talk honestly on rape, on how sexism, racism and queer-phobia are connected, how some of us as refugees or immigrants have survived war. It’s making our own personal narrative accessible to the larger public, and then engaging in a community dialogue after every performance."
Sharing your personal narrative in a public space can be challenging. Kay Barrett, describing a performance piece called "Infestation,"which deals with rape, sexual assault and sexual harassment, comments, "Anytime we perform that, it’s so direct, just thinking about it makes me heavy and powerful at the same time… For us to push those pieces is a really groundbreaking and fantastic thing for us but also very challenging for us spiritually. It’s about, ‘wow, I just performed this six minute piece and I feel a little shaky, I’m getting body memory, I’m getting triggers. So as performers, it can get pretty heavy."
At the same time, she expresses just how powerful this work can be in engaging communities and challenging preconceptions. "It’s really great every time to see an audience when we perform a piece that’s threatening, like, I will grab your balls and rip them off, I will write survivors’ stories in blood and hold a mirror up to your face and lock you inside this room so that you can look at all the stories of blood. To say things outwardly, not as a threat, but as reciprocity: if this violence is happening to women and queer folks, it’s happening to all of us."
Ideas for using arts & storytelling:
Many groups use popular education, a method of creating critical consciousness and strategies for change based in the experiences and knowledge of the participants, rather than educating them with information and perspectives developed by people outside of the group.
Casa Segura uses a popular education and feminist socialist framework "to ground the political in the everyday life of their participants." They describe their popular education work as helping "participants increase their ability to talk about and critically analyze their personal and collective issues in all its dimensions – that is, in relation to local realities and broader social inequalities (e.g. political work is not outside of your struggle for subsistence, is not in an office, but in your life)." This work sometimes takes place in the streets in the form of street theater.
The Young Women’s Empowerment Project (YWEP) leads popular education workshops in Chicago and nationwide for youth on the sex trade. As Shira Hassan explains, they lead these workshops in detention centers, group homes, shelters, drop in centers, "or any place that girls ask us to come." They estimate that they will reach over 700 girls through 40 workshops in 2007 alone.
YWEP also holds weekly membership meetings called "Girls in
Charge"that use a popular education curriculum centered around words related to
social justice. For example, when the young women looked at the word "power,"
they pooled their collective knowledge about the meaning of the word, and then
YWEP leaders added new information to support their analysis, exploring the
differences between institutional and personal power. The young women then
created an art project about power, making flags representing how they reclaim
power and sewing them together to create a "giant flag of our collective power."
Finally, after seeing YWEP leaders speaking at a panel discussion on
Reproductive Justice, the youth debriefed about the power of voice.
YWEP also uses popular education to work through issues that arise among staff and within the community. Shira Hassan explains, "Whenever we have an issue to work through—such as Safety/Violence Prevention—we come together and use popular education tools. Because we are a consensus-based project we generally incorporate the idea of mining our collective resources to come up with something that tells a story we can all see ourselves in. For instance, when our space was being targeted, we met together as a community and focused on our resilience and the ways we already protect ourselves. We also talked about the areas we wanted to know and do more about —like self-defense. We then broke up into committees to take action."
Popular education methods are of particular interest to groups working with young people, since youth are so often told by adults what they should think and believe.
Heather Flett explains what popular education looks like at Take Back the Halls, which leads anti-violence workshops in high schools. "We don’t use traditional education. The information comes from the life experience of the students and what they already know. When we give them extra information, we let them struggle with the ideas as opposed to us telling them what they should think about it."
The All Hail Project also stresses the importance of popular education when working with youth. Sharon Powell rejects "propaganda education, which says ‘this is bad,’ ‘that’s a bad idea to have’, without really listening to what youth are telling us about their experiences." The organization’s work "challenges that boundary of telling folks what to do as opposed to letting them discover something that’s workable for them and their experience and situation."
As an example, she describes a situation in which workshop participants, responding to the question of what causes violence, answered "a nagging woman."Rather than telling the youth that they were wrong, she had the group talk more about what it means to say that a "nagging woman"provokes violence. For her, it is important to explore young people’s ideas and responses rather than telling them that they are wrong. She believes it is important to listen because they might be telling us something very important that might help us deal with the situation in a different way.
Popular Education Principles
Some in the mainstream anti-violence movement have worked under the often unexpressed assumption that there is one "right answer"in responding to violence – for instance, the suggestion of "leaving"as the best solution to domestic violence. Many traditional service agencies have fallen into the trap of encouraging an either/or approach to the complex dynamics involved in domestic violence, addiction, prostitution/sex trade. At some of these agencies, an individual must commit to total change to receive resources and services. Women who "go back"to their abusers are tacitly judged as weak and "bad"; women who use drugs and/or are involved in the sex trade are judged and unwelcome.
Some groups around the country, and in Chicago, have responded to this by developing projects using a harm reduction approach. The Young Women’s Empowerment Project (YWEP), which works with young women impacted by the sex trade, is based in a harm reduction philosophy.
"Harm reduction is "a practice of respectful, free of judgment engagement with people to find ways to be healthier, safer, and more in control of their lives without having to make sudden and immediate changes. "
— Shira Hassan, YWEP
Shira Hassan explains, "We don’t ask that girls promise to stop using drugs, being sexually active or trading sex for money or survival needs to participate in our project. We support youth who are seeking to exit too, but often exiting the sex trade is a long process. We encourage and celebrate the small and slow changes people make in their lives."
Similarly, Lara Brooks at Broadway Youth Center (BYC) insists on "meeting people where they are, without requirementslike other programs have. For example, we know that youth who are homeless and living with violence may use various coping strategies, including using substances. We make services available to them even if they’re under the influence, as long as their use does not compromise the safety of the space. Young people are welcome to come, hang out, and access services."
BYC emphasizes the importance of offering "young people a fluidity of engagement,"making it easier for the youth to stay connected. "In our daily drop-in program, you don’t have to talk to a case manager to get food or take a shower. You don’t have to disclose your life story to meet some of your basic human needs." As a result, Lara Brooks says, "Some youth come for food only, and want quiet time, or to share space with others. Others are in 8 programs and have leadership in four programs and are here 8 hours a day. It’s significant to give young people that flexibility and choice."
The focus of harm reduction is on keeping people as safe as they can be and encouraging them to take whatever steps they can to make this possible. YWEP does not mandate abstinence or complete adherence to one policy. They not only meet the young women and girls where they are, but they see the girls, wherever they are, as potential leaders of the project. Shira Hassan says, "No matter what, girls are capable, they are prepared to be leaders. If they are currently in the sex trade, currently using drugs, they can still provide leadership in our project."
Harm reduction can be a challenging approach, because it can be isolating in a social justice community that does not readily accept its values. Shira Hassan recalls that in YWEP’s early days, "we were really isolated, and in some ways it was intentional and in other ways it happens when you own your experience as a drug user or as someone involved in the sex trade. We’re saying this is who we are and that creates a lot of isolation and that creates a lot of burnout. We have to think, now, how do we sustain ourselves when we have so few people that we can really rely on that understand and don’t judge around the sex trade? And on an institutional level it’s hard but the lesson was that we had to start with individuals as allies." YWEP has found that in partnering with individual staff at social justice groups across Chicago, they can build at least temporary alliances to support the work.
Harm Reduction Practice Values
"Other than being a moral obligation to end violence everywhere, males need to acknowledge the violence against women and educate themselves about it, so that they can educate and influence other men."— Lillian Matanmi, YWAT
A common strategy among the groups is to partner with men, and in particular young men, in their work. For many groups, this developed as a natural progression of their analysis, and a belief that men have a large role to play in ending violence against women. Veronica Precious Bohanan of AquaMoon explains "We were never exclusionary. I feel you can’t deal with women without dealing with men; I feel men and women balance each other out. AquaMoon was first focusing on what is a female perspective on this. That perspective more often than not does include men, albeit in a positive or negative way. Our goal with the second choreopoem (Aqua Beats and Moon Verses, Vol. II) was to bring in and better incorporate the male voice."
Lillian Matanmi, Associate Director of the Rogers Park Young Women’s Action Team (YWAT), feels that "violence against women and girls isn't our issue but a man's issue. Because if they don't realize that it is the responsibility of the perpetrator to stop the oppression, the violence will never end. The fact is, men will listen to other men before they listen to us. People often commend us for the work that we do against gender violence, but I personally am embarrassed by the minimal amount of men that help fight women's oppression."
Alex Poeter of the Brighton Park Neighborhood Council agrees, suggesting that it "takes a specific approach to get men to understand the issue and the need to support it, looking at systemic structures that perpetuate sexism. Women are still seen as lower beings with a lower status within society. We need to pursue and embrace equality, including gender. People have internalized sexist behavior and aren’t even aware. Also, men are in power, and it requires for us to understand that it’s important for the benefit of the community to give up that power. It requires a process to unlearn bad behavior, to develop a new analysis on the issue, to see how this issue relates to the broader context of the community."
Heather Flett of Take Back the Halls considers this work especially important in tackling the issue of teen dating violence. "Prevention efforts often focus only on working with young women. I believe that this sends an underlying victim blaming message. If we truly believe that it is men's behavior that is inappropriate and needs to change, then we should be targeting young men. But men and boys have historically not been considered allies in the movement to end violence against women. They have, in fact, often been unwelcome and seen as perpetrators and supporters of violence."
This work can raise several questions. First, for groups that are female-led, there is the question of points of entry for men. As Stacy Erenberg of Females United for Action (FUFA) asks, "How do we include men in a women or girl-led organization? Do we keep it a safe space for women? Do we open up our group to both genders?" In addition, as Heather Flett adds, "It can be a challenge to engage young men and keep them interested in the process. They learn and interact differently than young women, and these differences must be taken into consideration. We also have difficulty finding adult men with expertise in the field to facilitate the young men's program." This latter challenge in particular has led groups to develop their own approaches.
Take Back the Halls has made work with young men an important part of their prevention efforts. Young men participate and take active roles in each of the three high schools they work in, either in co-ed groups or boys-only groups. Last year, for example, one groups of boys created an educational video about sexual violence that was directed toward other young men their age. Heather Flett explains the power of involving them in this work, "The young men are seen as allies in the movement. We also help them to recognize the negative impact violence against women and children has had on their own lives. Many of the boys are child witnesses of domestic violence and some are child sexual abuse survivors."
FUFA – a group that is only open to women and girls – developed a partnership with young men in summer 2006, holding dialogues around media and gender, and launching a photo documentation project. FUFA distributed disposable cameras to young men and women, asking them to document positive images of men and women that they do not see portrayed in mainstream media. The resulting images were turned into a traveling photo exhibit, with an
accompanying reading packet and discussion guide, that has already been viewed by hundreds of youth in communities across Chicago. FUFA member Yunuen Rodriguez felt that this was a powerful partnership: "The guys were really enthusiastic about being male allies and actually saying ‘no, I don’t like seeing women being objectified, because I don’t like it when my girlfriend or mom gets harassed. So they had a chance to show their life in a way that counters the media’s views on how men live their lives."
YWAT has struggled with the questions of how to partner with young men since 2004. After an initial project called She Say/He Say, they launched a multi-tiered partnership with young men, through their campaign, "Engaging Young Men as Allies to End Violence Against Women & Girls,"in summer 2006. A key goal of YWAT’s work has been to identify young men’s attitudes about violence against women and girls.
The young women partnered with Beyondmedia Education to produce a documentary called Real Talk: Engaging Young Men as Allies to End Violence against Women and Girls. They have surveyed over 200 young men to document their attitudes in a report and have co-facilitated workshops with young men over the past couple of years. Most recently, YWAT held a "train the trainer" event for young men to learn how to develop their own workshops and events focusing on gender violence. The young men will have an opportunity to apply for a small grant to launch their own projects, and the group will hold a conference in February 2008, "Talking About Misogyny,"to continue this important work.
Lillian Matanmi is hopeful about men moving forward with this work. "YWAT is just taking a preliminary step by educating and recruiting men,"she says, "but it's up to the men to really get the ball rolling."
Ideas for partnering with men:
We hope that this report has given you some ideas and inspiration for how you might begin, or expand, antiviolence work in your own community. Whether you are one person with a great idea of how to create change, a small group with a shared vision, or an established organization that wants to expand its work to end violence, we welcome you as partners in this work!
There are many ways that you can be part of this growing movement. Here are a few suggestions:
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What resonates for members of your community? Are there strategies that you would like to try out? Use the Question Boxes throughout this report as ways to begin dialogue to determine your analysis and how you want to engage in this work. If you would like Women & Girls CAN to help develop this discussion, please let us know by calling us at (312)341-9650 or emailing womenandgirlscan@gmail.com.
Try out some of the ideas!
Can you think of one concrete action step that you can take in your community? Don’t forget that it’s not necessary to form a 501(c)3 organization, or get a big grant, to make change. Holding a community dialogue, telling your stories, meeting with young men, and many of the other strategies that Chicago groups are using can be done with little or no money. Try one out!
Meet with other groups!
If you are in Chicago, come to our next citywide convening, to discuss this work and learn from one another. We hold convenings four times a year. To get more information, email us at womenandgirlscan@gmail.com
Join the dialogue!
Visit http://www.womenandgirlscan.org to download a copy of this report and be part of our ongoing dialogue. There is space for you to leave your comments, and to let us know about your own ideas and innovative work. If you have tried a strategy that isn’t reflected in this report, we want to know! We’d also love to hear about your successes, challenges and needs as you engage in anti-violence work. Our website will be updated regularly to reflect new ideas, strategies, and projects.
[1]We use the phrase "violence against women"with the recognition that many groups of women fall under this heading and that many are invisible and/or marginalized in the mainstream antiviolence movement. Some of these groups are highlighted in this report—women of color, Latinas, Asian and Pacific Islander women, African American women, transgender youth, transwomen, queer women, women in the sex trade, women with disabilities. We also recognize that men – young and adult men – are often the subjects of interpersonal and state violence and can be allies in the movement to end violence.
[2]LGBTQI is an overarching acronym that stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, and intersex individuals and groups. This acronym includes many different groups of people within and across the categories. We do not mean to imply that this is one homogeneous community who would define and approach issues in the same way. In fact, there are often tensions because the particular issues and struggles of those who identify as transgender, intersexed, and bisexual are often marginalized in mainstream groups. It takes intentional effort for the acronym to live up to its vision of inclusiveness.
[3] While historically the term "queer"has been a derogatory term, many in LGBTQI communities are reclaiming it as a term of empowerment, and also a term that would include anyone who see themselves as outside of normative sexual identities.
Access Living, All Hail Project, AquaMoon, Brighton Park Neighborhood Council, Broadway Youth Center, Casa Segura, Females United for Action, FIRE, GABRIELA Network, Incite! Women of Color Against Violence, KAN-WIN, Latinas Organizing for Reproductive Equality, Mango Tribe, Rogers Park Young Women’s Action Team, Take Back the Halls, Young Women’s Empowerment Project
ACCESS LIVING
115 W Chicago Avenue, Chicago, IL 60610
(312)
640-2100 voice / (312) 640-2102 tty
generalinfo@accessliving.org
www.accessliving.org
Access Living fosters the dignity, pride and
self-esteem of people with disabilities and enhances the options
available to them so they may choose and maintain individualized and
satisfying lifestyles. We recognize the innate rights, abilities, needs
and diversity of people with disabilities, work toward their integration
into community life, and serve as an agent of social change.
ALL
HAIL PROJECT
1-800-574-0013
allhail2@aol.com
The All Hail
Project (AHP) is an organization whose mission is to contribute to
African American women's health and wellness by asserting, maintaining,
and preserving the sexual integrity and independence of African American
women by any means necessary.
AQUAMOON-DISMANTLING THE CULTURE
OF SILENCE!
6167 N. Broadway #202, Chicago, IL 60660
312-458-0912
aquamoon@spokenexistence.com
www.spokenexistence.com/aqua_moon.html
AquaMoon is the writing, performance, and artistic team of
camil.williams and veronica precious bohanan, an entity of
SpokenExistence, Inc. We bridge the gap between the streets, hip hop
feminism, performance activism, and academia. We are a voice for
disenfranchised womyn and youth, until they are empowered to assert
themselves and use their own voice. We generate and disseminate new
discourse and dialogue on women and gender issues. AquaMoon works with
educational and community-based organizations to effect social change
that will result in greater equality, freedom, and fuller lives for
women and youth. We provide students with opportunities to actively
express their voice in university, community, and business organizations
focused on serving womyn and youth.
BRIGHTON PARK NEIGHBORHOOD
COUNCIL
4477 S. Archer Ave., Chicago, Il 60632
(773)523-7110
info@bpnc-chicago.org
www.bpnc-chicago.org
The Brighton Park
Neighborhood Council (BPNC) is a community-based organization serving a
low-income working class neighborhood on Chicago's southwest side.
BPNC's mission is to develop strong grassroots leadership, create safer
communities, improve the learning environment for students of color,
increase affordable health care, preserve affordable housing, embrace
diversity, provide a voice for youth, protect immigrants’ rights,
promote gender equity, and prevent all forms of violence. BPNC works to
build community capacity and empower marginalized groups, including
girls, women, LGBTQ youth, differently-abled people, and people with
criminal records to advocate for their rights. BPNC unites individuals
and institutions to develop organizing campaigns aimed at increasing
equity for low-income communities of color, improving public policy and
addressing the root causes of poverty and inequality.
BROADWAY
YOUTH CENTER
A program of Howard Brown Health Center and its
community partners
3179 N. Broadway, Chicago, IL 60657
773-935-3151
youth@howardbrown.org
www.howardbrown.org/byc
The
mission of Howard Brown is to promote the well-being of gay, lesbian,
bisexual and transgender persons through the provision of health care
and wellness programs, including clinical, educational, social service
and research activities. Howard Brown designed these programs to serve
gay, lesbian, and bisexual persons in a confidential, supportive, and
nurturing environment. Howard Brown Health Center is committed to
working cooperatively with other community-based organizations serving
and contributing to the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender
community.
CASA SEGURA
2727 W. Winnemac, Chicago, Illinois
60625
(773) 506-0890
casasegura88@yahoo.com
Casa Segura is a
women of color collective whose mission is to build community power and
influence to change the social and political conditions that perpetuate
gender based violence by providing education and raising individuals’
consciousness; promoting community engagement; and building bridges with
a broader social justice movement.
FEMALES UNITED FOR ACTION
11 E. Adams, suite 902, Chicago, IL 60603
(312)341-9650
femalesunited@gmail.com
www.myspace.com/femalesunitedforaction
www.womenandgirlscan.org
Females United for Action (FUFA) is a
coalition of young women leaders that is dedicated to educate not only
ourselves, but others as well, on issues that affect women and girls. We
organize to bring attention to the issues and take action to address
them. FUFA is formed by girls and young women from all over the city of
Chicago, from all backgrounds & nationalities, ranging from 12 years of
age & up.
FIRE (Female Storytellers Igniting Revolution to End
Violence)
1507 E. 53rd St., suite 325, Chicago IL 60615
773-484-6041
fire_ends_dv@yahoo.com
www.myspace.com/fire1215
We
are a female centered and led group of women and girls, storytellers,
survivors, leaders, healers, and activists committed to tearing down all
forms of violence in order to create healed and whole communities
through building leaders to create new opportunities, raising awareness,
providing support, and empowering individuals for change.
GABRIELA Network
chicago@gabnet.org
www.myspace.com/gabnetchicago
GABRIELA Network is a Philippine-US women's solidarity mass
organization. GABNet provides the means by which Filipinas in the US can
empower themselves, functions as training ground for women's leadership,
and articulates the women's point of view. GABNet effects change through
organizing, educating, fundraising, networking, and advocacy.
INCITE! CHICAGO
incitechicago@googlegroups.com.
incitechicago@yahoogroups.com.
INCITE! Women of Color Against
Violence is a national activist organization of radical feminists of
color advancing a movement to end violence against women of color and
their communities through direct action, critical dialogue and
grassroots organizing.
KAN-WIN (Korean American Women in Need)
(773)583-1392
info@kanwin.org
www.kanwin.org
KAN-WIN is a
not-for-profit community organization established in 1990, committed to
building safe and healthy communities. KAN-WIN provides comprehensive
services to women and children affected by domestic violence and works
within the larger community towards women’s empowerment and social
change.
LORE (Latinas Organizing for Reproductive Equality)
(312)479-2464
LatinaLORE@gmail.com
L.O.R.E. is committed to
promoting reproductive health and reproductive choices as fundamental
human rights for Latinas and their families within Chicago communities.
We are united in creating a safe space for dialogue and community
mobilization to ensure reproductive justice.
MANGO TRIBE
41
Madison Street #3F, Brooklyn, NY 11238
http://mangotribe.thecollectivechicago.org/shows/sisters.html
Chicago@mangotribe.com
Mango Tribe is a multi-city Asian/Pacific
Islander American (APIA) interdisciplinary performance ensemble that
provides space for APIA girls, women, and genderqueer people to develop
their creative voices and skills through collaborative productions. We
engage in cultural resistance to oppression through experimental,
community-based performance and workshops. We believe that collective
creation is a powerful force for social justice.
ROGERS PARK
YOUNG WOMEN’S ACTION TEAM
PO Box 268945, Chicago, IL 60626-2425
(773) 338-7722 ext. 26
rpywat@hotmail.com
www.youngwomensactionteam.org
The YWAT is a youth-led,
adult-supported social change project that empowers young women under 21
years old to take action on issues that affect their lives (particularly
issues of violence against girls and young women). The YWAT believes
that girls and young women should be free from violence. The team
believes that through collective action, consciousness-raising, and
organizing it can end violence against girls and young women.
TAKE BACK THE HALLS
Heather Flett: heatherflett@sbcglobal.net
773-510-1782
Dr. Beth Catlett: bcatlett@depaul.edu
773-325-4758
Take Back the Halls: Ending Violence in Relationships and Schools (TBTH)
is a teen dating violence prevention and community activism program
designed to prevent relationship violence among teens. TBTH gives teens
the opportunity to examine issues such as domestic violence, sexual
assault, sexual harassment and sexual abuse, as well as the variety of
social structures that support violence in our culture. It creates a
space for students to talk about issues affecting their lives, to
generate ways to raise public awareness, to speak out against violence,
and to advocate for change in their schools and communities. In short,
TBTH aims to empower teens to become community leaders and active
participants in the movement to end violence.
YOUNG WOMEN’S
EMPOWERMENT PROJECT
2334 W Lawrence Ave, Chicago, IL 60625
(773)
728-0127
www.ywep.org
cindy@youarepriceless.org
Our mission as
the Young Women’s Empowerment Project is to offer safe, respectful,
free-of-judgment spaces for girls and young women impacted by the sex
trade and street economies to recognize their goals, dreams and desires.
We are run by girls and women with life experience in the sex trade and
street economies. We are a youth leadership organization grounded in
harm reduction and social justice organizing by and for girls and young
women (ages 12-23) impacted by the sex trade and street economies.
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Building Movement Project. Social Service and Social Change: A Process Guide. http://www.buildingmovement.org/artman/publish/printer_82.shtml
Calderón, Lisa M. "Rape, Racism, and Victim Advocacy,"The Black Commentator, Issue 98 (July 8, 2004). http://blackcommentator.com/98/98_Calderon_rape_racism_pf.html
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The authors would like to thank the following people and organizations for making this report possible.
Everyone who took the time to share their work and their insights with us:
Alice Cottingham
Mary Scott-Boria
Access Living: Susan
Nussbaum
All Hail Project: Sharon Powell
AquaMoon: veronica precious
bohanan and camil.williams
Brighton Park Neighborhood Council: Jessie Avilez,
Jen Curley & Alex Poeter
Broadway Youth Center: Lara Brooks & Joe Hollendoner
Casa Segura: Ana Romero
Females United for Action: Stacy Erenberg & Yunuen
Rodriguez
FIRE: Jen Curley, Cernora Johnson & Angee Washington
GABRIELA
Network: Kay Barrett, Elisa Armea
KAN-WIN: Jenny Choi, Inhe Choi & Young-Ju
Chi
Incite! Chicago: Mariame Kaba
Latinas Organizing for Reproductive
Equality: Mariela Alburges
Mango Tribe: Kay Barrett
Rogers Park YWAT:
Daphnee Rene, Lillian Matanmi, Ronnett Lockett, Emilya Whitis
Take Back the
Halls: Heather Flett
Young Women’s Empowerment Project: Shira Hassan & Cindy
Ibarra
FundersCrossroads Fund
Girls Best Friend Foundation
DePaul
University Liberal Arts and Sciences Undergraduate Research Assistant Grant
McCormick Tribune Community Internship Program, DePaul University Steans Center
Our Sister Members of the Community Accountability Planning Group:
Jen Curley, Sabrina Hampton, Mariame Kaba, Lu Rocha, Ana Romero, Michelle VanNatta
DePaul Student Interns:
Molly Clark, Mollie Haley, Ashley Vento
The following people who provided invaluable help in the final stages of the report:
Wendy Vendel, Aparna Sharma
Ann Russo has been active in local and national anti-violence efforts since the early 1980s. She is Associate Professor and Director of the Program in Women’s & Gender Studies at DePaul University and a board member of the Women & Girls Collective Action Network. She is author of Taking Back Our Lives: A Call to Action in the Feminist Movement (2001).
Melissa Spatz is the founding Director of the Women & Girls Collective Action Network. She brings 17 years of experience working through advocacy and organizing to end violence against women and girls, and is author of the report At a Crossroads: Youth Organizing in the Midwest (2005).
Jen Curley is Youth Organizer at the Brighton Park Neighborhood Council and a member of FIRE.
Sabrina Hampton is senior training coordinator with the Chicago Metropolitan Battered Women’s Network, and has been active as an advocate, counselor and organizer in the anti-violence field.
Mariame Kaba is the primary adult ally of the Rogers Park Young Women’s Action Team, which was founded in 2003. She has been active in the social justice and anti-violence fields since 1985.
Lu Rochais an independent domestic violence consultant and trainer. She has been an advocate for survivors of domestic violence for twelve years. She is currently a visiting faculty member at DePaul University and a board member of the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.
Ana Romero, Director of the Centralized Training Institute at the Battered Women’s Network, and co-founder of Casa Segura, is a social justice activist with 18 years of experience working in the global anti-violence against women movement.
Michelle VanNattais Director of Criminology at Dominican University. Her teaching and research focus on domestic violence, sexual assault, criminalization and the prison industrial complex.
For full bios of Planning Group members, please visit http://www.womenandgirlscan.org.
The Women & Girls Collective Action Network is a center for consciousness-raising, training, dialogue and action around issues that matter to women and girls. We strengthen connections across communities to promote collective action. We provide resources and support to create safe spaces for girls and women to develop as leaders, learn from one another, and take action to promote social justice.
Women & Girls CAN convenes the Community Accountability Planning Group, which holds quarterly citywide conversations around ending violence against women and girls. These are our guiding principles.